Monthly Archives: February 2018

Feb 15

A New Path to Peace


Our departed loved ones REST in peace. I'm positive. The reason I know for sure is because as a medium, I've asked many of my own departed friends and family members about how they are doing. Since they already know me - they communicate easily and specifically. And, they all tell me the same thing about the other side - "It is SO awesome here!"

What is also interesting is that regardless of whether they believed in God or not, were devout Catholics, Muslim, Hindu, Jewish - it doesn't matter - they all describe the same place. On the other side, they are in an environment of perfect love and light in the presence of the divine Creator. Their spirits live on in the essence of peace. They are with their soul group - friends, family, and pets. They are doing the work they are destined to do and watching over us. And, all they want their loved ones to do - is to LIVE in peace.

Often, during medium readings, one of the messages from the departed person is that they want to give their loved ones permission to "take down the shrine."  So many times, when someone crosses over, those who remain create galleries or places in their homes with pictures, possessions and mementos from the departed so that they will never be forgotten.

Those who remain here may even think that elaborate tribute centers and holding on to all of the clothing and possessions actually help their departed loved ones to be at peace. When, actually, what are intended to honor the departed, these tributes actually remind the survivors on a daily basis that their loved ones are no longer embodied here. And it is bittersweet.

While it can be comforting to keep that special necklace or your favorite photo or the ashes of your loved one - honoring their memory occasionally is healthy. But having your own life become suspended in grief with no hope of happiness or laughter or love is not serving them nor you.

Our departed loved ones rest in peace no matter what we do next. As difficult as it may be to wrap our brains around this fact - they are joyful, no matter what.

Survivors often ask if it is okay to sell the house and move closer to friends and family, or to date a new person or to go on vacation to that place that was always on the bucket list.

And the answer from the other side is always the same - "YES!!!"

Because while your loved ones in spirit still have a connection to you and still honor you, every moment they are moving farther away energetically as the soul progresses on its journey - unencumbered by a human existence.  As they move forward, so should you. Nothing would please them more.

Our departed loved ones want us to LIVE in peace. They want us to move forward, to love and be loved and to feel joyful. Our sadness does not honor them nor serve us. This is the truth.

One of the first steps we can take to live in peace is to disconnect energetically from the sorrow and memories of grief by scheduling an energetic healing session.  This in no way diminishes our love connection to that person - it just clears out the pain. As you know, that can be done through energy clearing, healing and balancing.

The other thing we can do is to validate that our loved ones are living in peace by working with a medium who will facilitate a healing communication session between us.

We can also surround ourselves with like-minded people who share authentically in our healing journeys and join with them to create the momentum to heal, thrive, and move forward.

One of the missions of Lightwalker is to empower ourselves and others to discover A NEW PATH TO PEACE. And we do this by lighting up our energy and moving through the phases from victim to survivor to thriver.

Finally, time doesn't heal all wounds - inspired action heals. Each of us takes a different walk on the grieving journey, but the desired result is the same. The good news is that each of us is able to choose our own path.

Feb 15

The Healing Power of Mediumship


Mediumship is a magical and essential process in the grieving journey. It is also one of those things that can be challenging to wrap our minds around. Here's some information about Mediumship and why it is fundamental to easing pain and suffering after loss.

The truth about Mediumship -

  • Mediumship is a process in which an intuitive person (a medium) connects with a departed spirit and relays messages from that soul to one or more people who are still on Earth.
  • Mediums are born. All mediums are psychic. Psychics without innate Mediumship abilities can't be trained to communicate with the departed - usually the ability is passed down through generations. Many mediums have parents or grandparents with the gift.
  • Mediums receive messages in different ways. While all mediums can communicate with the departed, two things differentiate the quality of mediums. One is the intention of serving others with their gifts and working as healers (as opposed to being entertainers). The other is the ability to deliver messages with compassion and grace.

Mediumship works because of quantum physics.

Mediumship works because of a combination of science and spirituality. From the scientific perspective, mediums are able to connect with departed spirits because according to Albert Einstein, energy is neither created nor destroyed - it simply changes form. When a human being dies, the soul leaves the body and relocates to the Universal cosmos. 

Mediumship isn't evil.

The spiritual side of Mediumship takes place in a partnership between the medium and the spirit world. Contrary to popular belief, Mediumship is not evil, dark, weird or scary and many mediums have been indoctrinated in religious traditions. The Spiritualist Church was founded on the principle that Mediumship is a divine, healing practice.

Mediumship is like sex.

Just like sex, you need to experience Mediumship to understand it. If you had no sexual experience, and someone described sex to you, would you want to do it? No way! It sounds horrible. The same holds true for Mediumship. When people experience a medium reading either one-on-one, on the phone, in person, or in a group setting, they understand immediately that Mediumship is natural, healing, fascinating and sometimes, fun!

Western medicine by itself doesn't provide relief.

The term "evidence-based" in the medical field indicates treatments proven to be effective as a result of extensive quantitative study. No evidence-based cure exists for grief. This is because Western medicine attempts to treat the symptoms of grief with drugs and psychotherapy - but neither of these heals the root causes of grief the way Mediumship does.

Mediumship eases pain and suffering for those who are grieving.

Mediumship is a huge benefit when it comes to relieving grief for a few reasons. One - it provides evidence to survivors that the departed loved one is alive in spirit. Also, it enables survivors to obtain relevant information from the departed and know that they are at peace and do not harbor any regrets about any incidents in their lives. Mediumship connects the departed soul with loved ones on Earth and provides comfort to all.

Mediumship is most effective within a certain time frame.

Most mediums recommend that Mediumship be used only after two to three months have passed after the death of the loved one.  However, the departed spirit can be accessed within days or weeks of crossing over and readings can be delivered within a shorter time frame at the discretion of the medium.

Each soul retains memories of life on Earth for a limited period of time. Accessing those memories is most effective within five years of the person's passing, but can also occur after more time has elapsed. 

Lightwalker intentionally offers the healing power of Mediumship to our community through the carefully-chosen mediums in the Lightwalker Beacon Network. Please visit our Beacon Network page to find a medium to assist you.

Feb 15

Energetic Memory and Trauma


While Eastern medicine has recognized this for centuries, Western medicine is beginning to understand the connection between trauma and cell memory. Scientific studies are proving that every living thing is an energetic ecosystem made up of cells and molecules that sustain life.

That's according to quantum physics. Also, according to that same science, when a human being experiences severe trauma - the dark, negative energy caused by fear, terror, disbelief, grief, etc. becomes embedded into the cellular memory of that individual. 

When we are exposed to traumatic events - whether physical or emotional or a combination, the negative energy invades our bodies and it stays there until it is removed. And, while it is there, we can feel pain, sadness, depression, fear, and may experience nightmares, tremors, anxiety, etc. The dark energy doesn't just sit there - it grows and expands and overwhelms until it seeps into the organ system and can eventually cause debilitating disease.

The most effective way to remove energetic cellular memory is through energy clearing - healing and balancing. The process is actually simple and affordable.You can schedule a session with one of our Lightwalker Beacon Network energy healers and experience the transformation for yourself.

Energy healing is an important first step in the grieving journey - to help you transform from being a victim to a survivor to a thriver. Even if you experienced catastrophic loss or trauma years ago and have never experienced energetic healing, this metaphysical modality is a real game changer.

To find an energy healer to assist you, please visit the Lightwalker Beacon Healer Network page.